Every teenager faces some heartbreak, including Selena Gomez! The Disney star says she once cried for “two days straight” over a breakup before getting it out of her system. Still, Sel says that she considers everyone she dates a lesson.

“All of these people that you’re dating are lessons, so more than likely they’re going to be people who will disappoint you, or who wont work out in the end. It’s just getting you that much closer to the right person,” says Selena. “For me, I always say ‘OK, on to the next lesson,’ and move on.”