How to Attract the Attention of Your Aries Crush

Aries-born are driven, enthusiastic and competitive people.

While their fiery personalities make them one of the most passionate zodiac signs, their ever-moving nature means it's pretty difficult to catch their attention.

But don't worry—if you're crushin' on this ambitious zodiac sign, there's still hope. Keep scrolling for our tips on how to attract the attention of your Aries crush.

Show Your Active Side

Aries is a very energetic zodiac sign. These people are always on the move. In fact, it seems like they're incapable of sitting still. They want a partner who can keep up with them, both mentally and physically. If you want to attract your Aries crush, find ways to show off your active side. Whether it's participating in a school sport, asking them to exercise with you or inviting them on a weekend hike, anything that allows an Aries to expend their endless energy will make them happy. Once you prove you can keep up, they'll be much more inclined to return your interest.


Lead With Your Independence

Aries-born are very spirited people, which means they can struggle to provide the tender, affectionate part of a relationship. Given time, they'll become increasingly better at meeting your emotional needs. However, in order to show them that you won't drag them down, you have to lead with your independence. Refrain from acting clingy, emotional or sensitive around your Aries crush. Instead, exude the air of someone who can handle themselves in any situation. It's guaranteed to catch your Aries' attention.


Play Hard to Get

Aries doesn't just enjoy competition, they thrive on it. When it comes to relationships, they love the thrill of the chase. Anything that looks too straightforward or too easy will quickly bore them. Even if you're head-over-heels for your Aries, you have to play hard to get. Act completely uninterested in them and spend plenty of time rebuffing their advances. It sounds counterintuitive, but Aries are known for chasing after what they can't have. If you make your crush think you're unattainable, they'll be that much more committed to making you theirs.

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Be Spontaneous

Aries isn't a sign that's overly committed to planning and organization. They prefer to take a go-with-the-flow approach, wandering wherever a situation happens to lead them. People who are too invested in one particular way of doing things will be a major turnoff to an Aries. If you want to show your Aries you're right for them, be sure to show off your spontaneous side. Make an effort to join them on their adventures and opt for dates that are out-of-the-box and inventive. Aries wants someone who can keep life interesting, so make an effort to show your crush that you'll do just that.


Show Your Feisty Side

Let's not mince words—Aries can be difficult. They're a bit self-centered and they have a tendency to be impatient. They're not afraid of lashing out at people, but they'll also become easily bored with a partner that caves to their will at all times. If you want to be with an Aries, don't hesitate to show your feisty side. Push back against their opinions and make your own feelings known. Not only is it critical if the two of you will ever be able to have a healthy relationship, it will also be attracting and intriguing to your Aries-born crush.

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Give Them Time and Space

Most importantly, if you want to attract your Aries crush, be sure to give them time and space. They're a deeply passionate sign, so they'll probably rush into your relationship with sweeping declarations once they determine they have feelings for you. However, their passionate fire will also burn out quickly. Don't take them at their word and rush into a romance. Give them time and space to develop their feelings and ensure that their emotions are stable. It's better for you, but it's also guaranteed to increase their interest if they can't get what they want immediately.


Struggling to get your crush? Click HERE for 6 things you need to understand about every Aries.