How to Attract the Attention of Your Scorpio Crush

Scorpios are a bit infamous for being very, very hard to know—but that doesn't mean it's hopeless.

It might take a little more to earn a Scorpio's trust and friendship, but all you need is a little patience and knowhow to make it happen. If you've been wondering how to attract the attention of your Scorpio crush, we have a few pointers for you below.

Be Honest

The first thing you need to do if you want to appeal to a Scorpio is demonstrate you're someone worthy of trust. Scorpios have a finely honed intuition and are able to quickly understand people and their true intentions. Because they don't always speak much, they're consistently tuning in to what other people say and do. The moment you tell a lie and break their trust, you'll get on Scorpio's bad side, and there's no coming back from it.


Be Authentic

Honesty isn't just about being truthful in what you say. It's also about honest actions. If you're trying to be someone you're not and putting on a different personality in order to impress, Scorpio will know it immediately. They have an uncanny ability to sniff out any kind of deception from a mile away, and they don't want anything to do with people who are anything but their most authentic selves.

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Add to the Conversation

Scorpios are known for their keen intellect, and the fact that they're typically quiet presents a lot of opportunities to contribute your own two cents. Don't squander it! Scorpios have a broad range of interests that can include everything from spirituality and politics to sciences and literature. If you can contribute meaningfully to the conversation and keep up with your Scorpio crush intellectually, they won't have any choice but to take you seriously.


Flaunt What Makes You Unique

Passion is the name of the game for Scorpio. They are intensely devoted to the things they care about most, and they hope to see the same amount of fervor in potential partners. If you have any hobbies, incredible skills or bizarre interests, don't be afraid to show them off a bit. Instead of pretending to be interested in something you know nothing about, focus on the things that bring you to life. Scorpio isn't interested in superficial people who are interested in the same boring things as everyone else, and they're actually attracted to quirky oddballs.


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Open Up

A Scorpio's trustworthiness and their reserved natures go hand in hand. Your secrets are safe with them, and if you feel comfortable with opening up to them about something sensitive and personal that you wouldn't tell just anyone, they're going to treasure the amount of trust you've put in them. And since confidence goes both ways, it'll get you one step closer to getting to truly know your Scorpio crush.


Be Patient

It can take a long while for Scorpio to truly confide in someone, and not everyone has what it takes to play the waiting game. Still, the key to their heart is patience and never rushing things along. The more impatient eager you get about trying to force information or closeness out of them too soon, the more likely it is that they'll retreat entirely.


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