How You Act When You’re Losing Interest in Someone, Based on Your Zodiac Sign

It's not easy, but some relationships simply aren't meant to last forever.

Sometimes, breakups are the result of a big conflict or obstacle, and other times, it's simply about being on different pages and losing interest in each other. The latter can be tough, and not everyone handles the situation so gracefully—though some signs do it better than others. Curious about how your zodiac sign acts when you're losing interest in someone? Just keep scrolling to learn more.

Aries (March 21 – April 19): Getting Confrontational

In new relationships, brash and impulsive Aries will go out of their way to demonstrate how much they care about someone. When those feelings begin to fade, however, so does that care and attention. Some Aries are straightforward enough to just come out and announce that their feelings have changed, but if not, they'll become listless, as they're not eager to waste their time on someone who no longer has their affections. They may begin to get confrontational, picking fights over the smallest things, as they no longer care about maintaining niceties.

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Taurus (April 20 – May 20): Focusing Attention Elsewhere

Taurus is one of the most dedicated signs of the zodiac, putting their attention into the things that matter to them. When they're in love, that might be on a partner, so when a shift happens away from that, its effects can be plainly felt. When they lose interest, all of their time and affection will move elsewhere, which is how they make their intentions clear.

 

Gemini (May 21 – June 20): Retreating Into Friend Groups

Gemini is known as the social butterfly of the zodiac. They're constantly hopping from friend group to friend group, but when romance begins to bloom, they'll pull back from that a bit to make more time for their special someone. When they start losing interest, they still want to keep things friendly, so most likely, they won't come out and say anything, instead retreating back into the friendships that maintained them pre-relationship. They'll also start getting extra flirty with others in search of something new.

 

Cancer (June 21 – July 22 ): Experiencing Heartbreak

Cancer is one of the sensitive water signs, and they get fully emotionally invested in their partnerships. Typically, they don't just start losing feelings for no reason. Often, it's a prolonged situation that's the result of having their heart broken and can take a big falling out to actually occur. And since Cancer doesn't open up to just anyone, you'll definitely see these defeated crabs retreating back into their shells.

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Leo (July 23 – Aug. 22): Cleanly Breaking Things Off

Leos are the stars of the zodiac, and they only want to be in relationships that keep them inspired and at the top of their game. In love, they're affectionate and celebratory, but when things aren't working out, they're more than ready to bring things off if that's what's best. They understand that drawing things out will only hurt the other person more and are ready to shine bright and do what they need to succeed.

 

Virgo (Aug. 23 – Sep. 22): Getting Critical

Virgos are reserved and detail-oriented signs who aren't even that open with their feelings when they are with someone, so when they pull back, it's not always immediately clear. However, one thing that can be more obvious is that they become more perfectionistic and critical with someone, losing their patience when previously, they would have cut the person more slack.

 

Libra (Sep. 23 – Oct. 22): Becoming Unresponsive

Libras are famously known as the peacekeepers of the zodiac, and while they're generally committed and loyal, that doesn't mean that things will always stay that way. The problem is that once they're ready to move on, they'll refuse to admit it, stringing the other person along so as not to upset them. In the meantime, they'll still wind up hurting them by being cold, avoidant and unresponsive, rather than their usual kind and chatty selves.

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Scorpio (Oct. 23 – Nov. 21): Questioning Everything

Scorpios are a passionate sign, loving deeply and not trusting easily, and when they start to lose interest, things can get a bit intense. They don't want those feelings to fade and will refuse to discuss it, sometimes even ignoring their emotions because they find the situation so painful. They may even intend to stay in a relationship that no longer suits them because it's what's comfortable, but the longer they refuse to process things, the meaner things will turn.

 

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Sagittarius (Nov. 22 – Dec. 21): Full-on Ghosting

Sagittarius is a free-spirited and friendly sign who's always looking for the next big adventure, and when it comes to romance, they often lose interest quickly. Unfortunately, that can mean hurting people, which is the last thing Sags want to do—and this can lead them to ghosting behavior. Rather than seeing someone in pain because of their actions, they'll ignore it and hope that the other person forgets and also moves on while they're off on that next journey. Of course, this rarely works out!

 

Capricorn (Dec. 22 – Jan. 19): Taking Responsibility

Capricorn is one of the hardest-working and most responsible signs of the zodiac, and they don't play games when it comes to love. When they're ready to move on, not only will they take the initiative in letting the other person know, but they'll be as "helpful" about it as they can, explaining precisely why things didn't work out. It's a very logical approach that not everyone can appreciate, but it's typically handled in a very mature way.

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Aquarius (Jan. 20 – Feb. 18): Returning to Friend Status

Airy Aquariuses tend to be aloof to begin with, so when they're not feeling a relationship, they're prone to becoming even more distant and disinterested. They'll simply be around less and make themself less available, deprioritizing the person in the relationship. Typically, their end goal is to go back to how things were when the couple was "just friends," but that's rarely possible in the real world.

 

Pisces (Feb. 19 – March 20): Wallowing in Guilt

Pisces is the zodiac's hopeless romantic, and they're the last sign that wants a relationship to run its course. They'll agonize over the way they're feeling, often blaming themself for how things are turning out, and this can manifest itself in odd ways. They'll sometimes overcompensate, becoming blingier the guiliter they feel, which can be destructive to the relationship.

 

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