17 Things You’ll Relate to If You’re Always in a Relationship

Simply put, some of us are just relationship people.

We bond easily and we love deeply, which is the perfect personality recipe for continuous long-term relationships. If you're one of these people, then you know that this lifestyle comes along with its fair share of truths and struggles. Continue reading for everything you'll only understand if you're a serial monogamist:

Everyone Seeks Your Dating Advice

You're the go-to person when anyone has relationship questions or are in need of advice. In other words, you are your friend group's version of a love doctor.

 

You Tend to Get Left Out of Things

Often your friends assume you'll be busy with your S.O., so they don't extend a courtesy invite and you end up feeling really left out—whether or not their assumption was correct.

(Pretty Little Liars via the CW)

 

Also read about: 7 Common Mistakes You'll Probably Make In Your First Relationship

 

Sometimes, You Do Miss the Independence of Single Life

All your single friends think you have it made, but sometimes you secretly wish that you could experience some single lady freedom every once in a while. At least patches of the grass are always greener on the other side. 

 

You Have to Choose Your Priorities Carefully

You've had at least one fight with your BFF because she feels like you prioritize your relationship over her friendship.

(Girls via HBO)

 

You're an Expert at Diffusing Conflict

You're way better than anyone else at handling arguments because years of relationships have taught you to lead with "I" statements.

 

Maintaining a Balanced Life Seems Impossible

Your entire life is a constant struggle to balance school, friends, and your S.O. At any given moment one of the categories of this trifecta is bound to suffer.

 

The Breakups Are Extra Draining

Your breakups are the most dramatic because you've likely been in each of them long-term. Because you're a relationship girl, you don't mess with unions that'll only last a month.

(Pretty Little Liars via the CW)

 

Also read about: A Definitive Ranking of Breakups, From Least to Most Painful

 

Still, Being Single Doesn't Last

You never stay single for long because by the time one relationship ends, you already have your eyes on a new suitor.

 

Their Family Is Basically Your Family

Your parents have an extended invite to your S.O. for any and all family get-togethers. Speaking of family, you're entire extended family is probably well-acquainted with your love as well.

(The Fosters via Freeform)

 

You Know All the Ins and Outs of Their Family's Baggage

On the flip side, you also know so much drama about a family that isn't technically yours. Ugh, Auntie Debbie!

 

You Have to Put Extra Thought Into Holiday Presents

You always have an extra present to gift when the holidays roll around. Sure, that means one more present for you, but it also means your bank account gets dinged an extra notch.

 

You Daydream About a Future With Them

More than once you've imagined forever with the person you're currently dating.

(Pretty Little Liars via the CW)

 

You Have to Keep an Eye Out for Potential Flirting

That awkward moment when someone asks for your number or to hang out, and you're not sure if you should disclose that you're in a relationship (which would be totally embarrassing if they themselves weren't looking to date you) or agree to the coffee date without understanding their intentions.

 

There's Always Someone There for You

You always feel an extra level of support because you have the love of your life to hold you close when you're feeling down.

(The Fosters via Freeform)

 

Also read about: 6 Signs You Can't Handle a Long-Distance Relationship

 

Most of the Time, You're Rather Hang Out With Your Special Someone

You have to admit you've missed out on tons of friend hangouts because you always have plans with your S.O. on the weekends.

 

You Make Sure Your Friends Adore Your Person

It's incredibly important to you that your friends like your new boyfriend or girlfriend because you all know that you'll be spending a lot of time together.

 

February 14? Actually a Cool Day

Unpopular opinion: You don't hate Valentine's Day.

 

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