Talking to your crush is perhaps one of the most nerve-racking experiences, period.
That first interaction is especially scary. What are you supposed to say, how are you supposed to act and, seriously, how can you stop yourself from blushing? Scroll below to relive 19 thoughts that have probably raced through your head during a terrifying first conversation with your crush.
To Talk, or Not to Talk
Here it is, the moment of truth—I can see my crush right there. Do it. Do it. Do it. Just go up and say hi.
What’s Next?
So I said hi, now what?
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Keeping the Convo Going
Oh, right, I should probably ask a question and not just stand here like a weirdo.
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Letting Them Know You’re Interested
Okay, okay. Crush is engaging. Now smile, push your hair back and try to look cute.
But Not Too Interested
Oh no, do I look like I’m trying too hard? I feel like I’m trying too hard. Stop fidgeting.
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Reacting Appropriately to the Conversation
They just told a joke, I should laugh. Okay, laughing.
Making Plans
Hmmm, how can I figure out a sneaky way to see them this weekend? I have to think of an excuse…
Using School as an Excuse to Hang Out
Got it! We have a test Monday. A study session is a totally casual way to hang out.
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Second-Guessing It, Regardless
And we’re in! Do they think I’m weird for initiating a hang out? Oh well. Quality time.
Keeping Your Crush’s Attention
Okay, more people are joining the convo, I can handle this. Just gotta keep them focused.
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Hearing Your Name Aloud
Wow, they just said my name. They actually know my name.
Trying Not to Act Like That Wasn’t a Big Deal to You
Am I blushing? Shoot. I think I’m blushing.
Attempting to Play It Cool
Be cool. Be cool.
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Connecting in a New Way
What’s this? Are they pulling out their phone? Could this mean….?
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Exchanging Numbers
That’s right, they just asked for my number, I am so in.
Parting Is Such Sweet Sorrow
Time for the goodbye. What do I do? Handshake, hug, smile and nod? Why is everything so difficult?
Trying Not to Make a Fool of Yourself With a Simple Interaction
Just go for a casual wave and say “See you later.” Totally cool. Totally laid back.
Enjoying the Moment
I did it, I really did it.
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Now to Let Time Do Its Thing and Bring You Back Together Again
Conversation complete and hang out initiated. Gahh, they’re so cute.
If you don’t have the courage to talk to your crush yet, but still want to get to know a little about them, head over HERE to see what your crush’s style reveals about them.
