5 Big Things to Understand About Your Scorpio Crush

Scorpios are known for being cool, passionate and determined—and the fact they're often a bit mysterious and distant can make them even more appealing. If you've been crushing on one lately, we do not blame you.

Scorpios celebrate their birthdays between Oct. 23 and Nov. 21, and while they may be the most notorious sign of the zodiac, known for being jealous and manipulative, they're also incredibly loyal and protective of those they care about most. They can also be a little difficult to figure out, so if you're not sure quite how they feel about you, here are some of the big things you should know about your Scorpio crush.

They're Intense

If there's one sign of the zodiac known for its passion and intensity, it's Scorpio, and this will often reflect in their romantic lives. Though they're not ones to wear their hearts on their sleeves, they'll often make their intentions clear with the level of commitment and investment they put into the relationship. They're fiercely loyal, so if you feel like they're dedicating all of their time and attention to you in a way they simply don't with others, that's a good sign that they view you as more than a friend. Just remember that they expect the same kind of dedication in return.

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They Feel Easily Betrayed

Scorpios believe that loyalty goes both ways, and since they go all-in on their relationships, they easily feel slighted if they don't get your 100% in return. They may misinterpret even small things as disloyalty or betrayal, so it's important to know how to communicate openly with them to get on the same page. They can also be prone to jealousy and possessiveness and need reassurance in their relationships—especially when they perceive a threat to their happiness.

 

They Can Be a Bit of a Mystery

Scorpios don't open up easily, usually maintaining a very small circle of the people they trust most—and even if you have made your way into said circle, you might still feel like you don't truly know them. This can be just as annoying as it is strangely appealing, but don't forget that it can take time and patience for Scorpio to finally reveal their full feelings for you. Once they do, you'll discover their incredibly emotional depths and the connection you can find with them over common ground.

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They're Independent

Scorpios tend to require alone time and personal space more than most people. As water signs, they're driven by emotion and intuition and need extra time to sit with their feelings and process them. Despite a tendency to be clingy, they don't appreciate being smothered with love themselves and benefit from a partner who will respect their occasional need for independence.

 

They're Resilient

When Scorpio has their eye on something, absolutely nothing can get in their way. In fact, they enjoy the challenge of obstacles in their life, even when it comes to relationships. They're willing to fight to make it work—and if you're the object of their affection, they'll fight for you. Few things discourage them, so if you're going to pursue a relationship with them, you should make sure you're in it for the long run.

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To learn even more about Scorpios in relationships, click HERE for the biggest clues that your Scorpio crush might like you back.

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