The Most Important Advice You Don’t Want to Hear, Based on Your Zodiac Sign

Have you ever heard a bit of advice, knowing that it was wise and practical, but choosing to ignore it anyway?

We've been there ourselves. Sometimes, the words that are the most significant and cut the deepest are precisely the ones we need in our lives, and the ones we're the least ready to hear. After all, changing your life for the better can be hard. It's simpler to go along with the status quo and keep going as you have, even knowing there's a better way to do things. Can you relate? Scroll down to your zodiac sign below to find out the most important advice you don't want to hear.

Aries (March 21 – April 19):

"Don't raise your voice. Improve your argument."

-Desmond Tutu

Aries are passionate fire signs who lead with their hearts, and once their strong emotions get going, it can be challenging to reel them back. They're a sign of action, and in making their case, they prefer to strike first, with great volume and intensity, in order to make themselves heard. Of course, not everyone thinks the way they do. They need to understand that it's not the loudest or most energetic argument that wins, but the one that's well-reasoned and resonates with others.

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Taurus (April 20 – May 20):

"There is only one certainty in life and that is that nothing is certain."

-G.K. Chesterton

Taurus is a grounded earth sign known for dependability, planning ahead and an appreciation of comfort and fine things. The last thing they want to hear is that, no matter how well they prepare for life's eventualities, it doesn't always guarantee that things will go according to plan. They're stubborn as their zodiac symbol, the bull, meaning they hate change and being forced to deviate from the program. Being forced to expect the unexpected throws a big wrench into things, but that's just the nature of life.

 

Gemini (May 21 – June 20):

"Know thyself."

-The Seven Sages of Greece

Geminis are recognized for their social abilities and tendency to make friends with just about everyone they meet. They're outgoing chameleons who are happy to adapt themselves to just about any situation, and their zodiac symbol is the twins, representing their duality. On the flip-side, because they're always changing who they are in able to fit in, they can struggle with knowing who they are deep down. They can adjust to different molds and roles, but what are they all about when those things are stripped away? This advice is all about looking inward to find that authentic self, which will help them make important decisions and stick to their core principles when it matters most.

 

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Cancer (June 21 – July 22):

"People aren't thinking about you the way that you're thinking about you."

-Alex Rose, Schitt's Creek

Sensitive Cancers are said to have a nearly psychic sense of intuition, but just because they're good at reading a room doesn't mean their perceptions are always correct. Their empathy can also result in moodiness, and when they're in the wrong headspace, they can start thinking that everyone else hates them and is out to get them. While they're laser-focused on how they appear to others, they should remember that everyone else is just as wrapped up in themselves and probably not projecting that kind of nastiness and negativity outward. It would be weird if others thought about Cancer as much as Cancer thinks about themselves, and that's a good thing.

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Leo (July 23 – Aug. 22):

"Reject your sense of injury, and the injury itself disappears."

-Marcus Aurelius

Leos may have a reputation for being the proudest and most confident sign of the zodiac, but their big egos can also be easily bruised. Sometimes, this bold charisma can actually hide insecurity and fear of rejection, and pretending to be fine does nothing to heal the blow. Often, they can take criticism or refusal to heart and let it bring them down, rather than letting meaningless words words roll of their backs and truly embrace what it means to be self-assured and authentic.

 

Virgo (Aug. 23 – Sep. 22):

"Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it."

-Ferris Bueller, Ferris Bueller's Day Off

With their tendency to be detail-oriented and analytical, Virgos aren't exactly known for being ones to seize the day. They can get so caught up in the minutiae of things that they struggle to see the big picture. They'll work themselves to the point of exhaustion ensuring that everything is in place, missing out on the big picture in the meantime. Many Virgos struggle to take breaks, feeling they need to always be productive, when in fact one of the most productive things they can do is to rest and stop to smell the roses. The inspiration they can get from this broader perspective can change the game.

 

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Libra (Sep. 23 – Oct. 22):

"I regret the things I didn't do, not what I did."

-Ingrid Bergman

Libra's urge to always keep the peace and maintain balance in life can make them highly indecisive. Often, they think the safest choice is to make no choice at all. Unfortunately, refusing to take any risks in life means that opportunities pass them by at every turn. They can come to regret all of the things they didn't pursue and the experiences they miss out on because they were to scared to jump for them. Instead, Libras should feel inspired to take the occasional calculated risk and actually see what the world has to offer for them.

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Scorpio (Oct. 23 – Nov. 21):

"Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity."

-Hanlon's Razor

Scorpios aren't well-known for being the kindest or most generous of the zodiac signs, and that's mostly because they're very particular about who they trust and respect enough to spend their time on. In part, this is because deep down, they're quite sensitive, and they're likely to have been hurt in the past. One thing they need to understand, though, is that much of the pain they've endured has been the result of thoughtlessness, rather than actual ill intent. The sooner they realize that there are more foolish people than evil people, the happier they'll be.

 

Sagittarius (Nov. 22 – Dec. 21):

"With great power comes great responsibility."

-Uncle Ben, Spider-Man

Freedom-loving Sagittarians can't stand being pinned down by burdens and responsibilities, which is ironic, because they're naturally drawn to roles that necessitate it. They're known for being lucky in all aspects of life, but even when they're offered positions of great power and influence, they sometimes reject them because they're scared of having more on their plates. It's essential that they learn that this kind of duty is a privilege, not a curse, and they they can achieve great things if they're just willing to embrace that change.

 

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Capricorn (Dec. 22 – Jan. 19):

 "Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better."

-Maya Angelou

Capricorns can be a bag of contradictions, believing they already know it all even as they pursue a journey of constant learning. They're also quite traditional and can be stuck in their ways, but why go on a mission of discovery and self-betterment if you refuse to adapt with what you learn? Caps are creatures of habit who struggle to learn new tricks, but the more open-minded and willing to change they can be, the stronger they can become.

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Aquarius (Jan. 20 – Feb. 18):

"The most important trip you may take in life is meeting people halfway."

-Henry Boye

As the most independent and free-thinking sign of the zodiac, Aquarians can sometimes struggle to put themselves in other people's shoes. They have a very strong point of view, which can be paired with a sense of superiority and refusal to consider others. However, this is rarely the path to success, and learning to collaborate and compromise with others can be essential to actually seeing their plans through. Ironically, the better they get at meeting people in the middle, the better they'll be understood, and the more good they can accomplish.

 

Pisces (Feb. 19 – March 20):

"Always do what you are afraid to do."

-Ralph Waldo Emerson

Pisces are famous for their unbridled creativity and massive imaginations, but they also have a reputation for being dreamy thinkers, rather than doers. They can imagine precisely what they want to do, but when things seem too hard, too time-consuming or too scary, they sometimes put those dreams off, hoping the opportunity will jump into their laps instead of come through work and dedication. The truth is that these things seem scary because they're so meaningful. They might fear failure, when not trying at all the way more frightening reality.

 

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