14 Questions to Ask Your Crush Over Text to Keep the Conversation Going

Chatting with your crush over text can be nerve-racking, to say the least.

You've finally crossed this important relationship milestone, but now you're plagued with worries that the slightest misstep will ruin your chances at furthering your romance. What if you come on too strong? What if they decide you're not that interesting to talk to? Or what if you just plain run out of things to say?

Thankfully, we might be able to help with at least one of these issues. Keep scrolling for 14 questions to ask you crush over text to keep the conversation going.

For a text that speaks to your musically-inclined crush:

"What's your favorite song or band right now?"

Sam White getting a text in Netflix's Dear White People

(Dear White People via Netflix)


For a text that tests your content compatibility:

"What's your favorite meme?"


For a text that might lead to a deep conversation:

"What's your favorite memory so far?"


For a text that lets your crush express their critical nature:

"What do you judge people for most often?"


For a text that gives you some insight into what your crush values:

"What's the best compliment you've ever received?"

Jess with her phone New Girl

(New Girl via FOX)


For a text that gives you some insight into what your crush hates:

"What're your top three pet peeves?"


For a text that helps you pin down your crush's hobbies:

"What's a talent you have that no one really knows about?"


For a text that gets to the heart of who your crush is:

"What were you like as a kid?"


For a text that feels out your animal compatibility with your crush:

"If you could have any animal as a pet, what would you choose?"

Grown-ish: Zoey texting while wearing a towel turban

(Grown-ish via Freeform)


For a text that jumps right past the small talk:

"What's your biggest fear?"


For a text that lets you know your crush's less-appealing traits:

"What's your worst habit?"


For a text that will give you a fun look into your crush's personality:

"Which Friends character do you think you are?"


For a text that will definitely spark an interesting discussion:

"If you could time travel, would you go to the past or the future?"

gossip girl- blair staring at her phone

(Gossip Girl via The CW)


For a text that veers toward the positive side of things:

"What's the one thing that makes you happiest?"


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