6 Reasons Why You Should Go on Solo Dates, Even if You’re in a Relationship
Society glamorizes spending your life with another person—getting married, having a large family and connecting with a best friend—but there is so much value in being alone, too.
If you spend plenty of time with others, consider taking a moment to be by yourself. Below, discover six reasons why everyone should include solo dates, even if you are in a relationship.
You Learn More About Yourself and Your Interests
When you do things by yourself, you have more capacity to understand how it affects you. There is no buffer from a person you love. In other words, you won't confuse the good time you had with a friend, family member or significant other with appreciating the activity. It will help you decide what type of hobbies and interests you want to pursue in the future. You might even find a life-changing career path or business venture.
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You Don't Have to Wait Around for Other People
Some events only exist for a limited time. You might not find someone to attend it with you quickly. Don't let yourself miss making a memory for fear of being alone. Most people will be too immersed in the event to even think about whether another attendee came with a friend. Because who cares? We typically think people are cooler for having the confidence to go solo.
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Combat Anxiety About Loneliness
It may be daunting to do things alone at first, but it will feel normal the more you do it. Think about it. Society convinces us it's weird to dine at restaurants and go to the movie theaters by yourself, but it's not abnormal at all. Everyone eats and watches their television alone at home all the time—what's so different about doing it in public?
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Relaxation Without Draining Your Social Battery
Sometimes, you want to go out and enjoy life. It can be as simple as going to the library or the park. Even though you feel more comfortable with a loved one, being around others can be draining. Going solo gives you the exhilaration without draining your social meter.
Treating Yourself Without Judgment
Spending money can be therapeutic, whether it's buying a beautiful dress or indulging in a luxurious dessert. However, some people will turn their nose up at how other's use their funds. If you know that one person will have commentary about treating yourself, spend your money in the peace and quiet of solitude. Of course, only use funds within your budget.
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You Have Full Freedom of Choice
When you do things with other people, you have to consider their needs and wants. For example, will they want to leave early because they have to work in the morning? Will they get annoyed by loud noises? When you are by yourself, you have the freedom to arrive and exit at your convenience, creating far less stress.
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