5 Things to Know Before Attending Your First Party
Summer is here! Bring on the later nights and warmer weather.
Since school is finally out, you and your friends might be able to see each other more often. And the best part? You won't have to do it surrounded by teachers and homework. Instead, you might be attending your first house party with your best friends.
If you plan to cross this teenage bucket list item off this summer, continue reading to discover five things you must know before you go.
Bringing a Friend Can Ease the Nerves
Sometimes, the friend who invited you to the party might be the only person you know. As the host, they'll likely be dashing around to ensure everything is going smoothly and mingling with everyone. If you don't feel comfortable going solo, ask the host if you can bring another friend. It always puts our minds at ease to know we'll have someone to lean on through the night.
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Come With a Plan
Before you arrive, ensure you and your group have a course of action. That way, you know what to expect, which also can lower anxiety for yourself and your parents.
Try to assign one person to drive or confirm that someone will be there to pick you up at a specific time. For extra security, you can also give your ride the host's number if something goes wrong.
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Don't Be Afraid to Introduce Yourself to Others
Unless you're going to an intimate party, you probably won't know every person who shows up. You never know what could flourish from the stranger you introduce yourself to, and a party is a perfect low-stakes environment to be an extrovert. After all, that boy you meet might be your future husband or best friend for life!
Just Because Others Are Doing It, Doesn't Mean You Do
A party might bring a few experiences you feel uncomfortable with. If you see people getting too rowdy, don't feel pressured to join in. Anyone who judges you for not participating in harmful shenanigans isn't someone you want in your life. Plus, you can comfortably say that you left the party without doing anything you regret.
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You Can Leave Whenever You Want
Some people might stay until 3 or 4 a.m. at some house parties. Other people may even stay the night. Like our last rule, you don't have to copy other's actions because it's the "cool" thing to do.
We've noticed our friends are too caught up in whatever they're currently doing. It's okay to duck out without saying anything, but you should text your group to let them know you left safe and sound.
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