8 Vibrant Messages to Send Your Crush to Celebrate the Start of Summer

This Friday, June 20, marks the summer solstice and the official start of summer in the Northern Hemisphere (though our schedules and the weather have been telling us otherwise). It signals three sizzling months of heat, sun and long days, as well as a unique sensation of freedom and independence—even if you're not one of the lucky ones who actually gets a summer break.

We don't know about you, but we always feel extra motivated and daring during the summer months. If you've been putting off finally making that first move with your crush, now might be just the time to act. Instead of procrastinating even longer and maybe taking that leap in the fall, turn the breezy summer vibes into the perfect excuse to reach out with one of the playful text messages below.

'Didn't feel like waiting until fall to talk to you again. Hi!'

Whether you're in school or a seasonal job, you might be in a situation where a summer break means you won't see your crush again for months unless you decide to take matters into your own hands. Now is your time! Instead of making excuses, use that forced distance as an opportunity to reach out to them and close that gap by starting a conversation and making plans together. Even if nothing romantic develops between you, it's nice to get to know them better and spend less time wondering what could have been.

 

'I have no idea what to do with all of this extra daylight. Want to hang out and kill some time?'

Depending on where you live, the sun can start to set as late as 9 p.m. during the summer, giving us all plenty of sunlight to enjoy during our waking hours. That can also mean quickly running out of activities to do and falling into a pattern of inactivity and boredom. Chances are that one of the reasons you're drawn to your crush is that they know how to have fun, so don't be afraid to reach out for some pointers or even see if you can meet up with them for their next sunny summer escapade.

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'You've always seemed like the adventurous type. Any camping spots you recommend this summer?'

Drawn to someone with a sporty and outdoorsy streak? We find that adventurous people don't just love to explore the world, but also to share their finds and exciting tales with others. This message gives your crush the opportunity to brag a little bit and open up about the things they're passionate about, while also opening the door to create experiences you can share in common—especially if they happen to invite you to their next excursion.

 

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'I'm vowing to come out of my shell this summer. Starting with messaging you…'

There's something about the energy of summer that brings out the boldest sides of people. If you're feeling the change, channel that restless and impulsive energy into sending your crush a message that doesn't beat around the bush. Let them know you're trying to be more outgoing and extroverted this summer, and that your first move is centered around them. Then see where the situation takes you.

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'It's way too hot out today. Why don't we hang out, and you can show me how you keep cool?'

The summer temperatures make it a particularly flirtatious time of year, as beating the heat often entails making a splash in the pool or at the beach in swimsuits. If you're not feeling too shy about that kind of exposure, these activities can be a fun and casual way to break the ice and get to know your crush better, often in the company of a bigger group of friends. Just let them know you'd like to join in, and let the good times roll.

 

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'I'm inviting you to my summer potluck. I trust you to bring something good.'

Throwing a summer get-together is a great way to get people together for a good time, and the perfect excuse to get your crush on your own home turf. Throw a little barbecue or potluck and invite folks that'll put you at ease and help you inhabit your most confident and outgoing self. Also make sure that the object of your affections is invited. If they're someone who loves to cook or is a major foodie, they're sure to make the event more exciting as well as more delicious.

 

'Now that the summer sun has finally gone down, it's time to play. Any suggestions?'

Summer fun isn't just for the daytime. The evenings may be short, but they're the perfect respite from the heat of the sun, and an excellent time to get to know your crush better in a more intimate, one-on-one setting. This message opens the door to learn more about your crush's favorite nightlife activities, and potentially get invited in for a peek.

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'All this sizzling hot sunshine is reminding me of you, and I thought you should know it.'

Brave enough to let your crush know that you think they're extra hot? When the temperatures are soaring and you just can't hold it in anymore, shoot them this flirtatious message to make your feelings known. Whether or not you get the response you're looking for, at least you can know you tried. This just might be the start of something beautiful.

 

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