The Fastest Way to Flatter Every Sign of the Zodiac

There's an old saying that says flattery will get you everywhere. While that's not the case 100% of the time, we find that it rarely hurts to help people feel good about themselves by boosting their egos.

Even if you think you're immune, everyone is susceptible to being flattered every once in a while. That's not always a bad thing, and this awareness can help you curry favor in certain social situations or even recognize when someone isn't being totally sincere with you. Curious how that works for the different zodiac signs? We've broken down how to do it in an authentic way below.

Aries (March 21 – April 19): Compliment Their Bravery

Aries rarely hesitate, which is probably why they kick off the zodiac in the first place. They pride themselves in their daring actions, and while they mostly do these things for themselves, seeking adventure and excitement, they'd also love a little recognition once in a while. Try complimenting their bravery in a tough situation or when their acts have ripple effects that positively tough the lives of others to make a lasting impact with them.

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Taurus (April 20 – May 20): Let Them Know You Can Rely on Them

As an earth sign, Taurus is grounded, practical and highly dependable. They want to be a rock for others and create a solid foundation for them, so no one ever has to question they'll be there when they're needed most. Few things will flatter them more than letting them know just how much you know you can rely on them. You're not just telling them how trustworthy they are, but that you know you can depend on them. Those words will speak volumes.

 

Gemini (May 21 – June 20): Note the Way They Connect People

As the social butterfly of the zodiac, Geminis don't like like making individual friends—they enjoy really bringing people together. For them, it's the more, the merrier, and they make it their goal to unite people with common interests who wouldn't ever cross paths otherwise. When you see that kind of connection unfolding in real time, don't be afraid to point it out. They're going to love that you took notice, and it's also bound to inspire them to continue on with their mission.

 

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Cancer (June 21 – July 22): Show Them How Comfortable You Are With Them

Cancer is one of the emotional water signs, and those born under the sign tend to be a bit sensitive and careful with their feelings. They don't open up to others easily, but one way you can help them feel more appreciated and seen is by letting them know how welcome they make you feel around them. They can have a nurturing, comfy presence that brings out the best in others, and they'll be highly flattered to know it.

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Leo (July 23 – Aug. 22): Tell Them How Infectious Their Energy Is

The typical Leo wants to be the star of the show. They shine brighter than most, captivating people with their charisma and bold energy, but at the same time, their goal isn't to overshadow everyone. They're happiest when they can share that light with others, ensuring everyone is having just as much fun as they are. When that's happening, be sure to tell them. While any compliments are bound to go a long way with Leo, one that lets them know how they influence others is sure to make their day.

 

Virgo (Aug. 23 – Sep. 22): Notice the Details of Their Work

To say that Virgos can be perfectionists is an understatement. They're detail-oriented and fastidious, and their careful natures reflect in pretty much everything they do. Virgos can also be very self-critical, but you don't have to feed those doubts, instead noticing the neatness and detail of their work and sharing how much you appreciate it. Be specific with your praise to really make your word resonate.

 

Libra (Sep. 23 – Oct. 22): Show Appreciation for Their Compassion

Libra is an air sign that strongly emphasizes the importance of relationships. They're generous, compassionate and always doing what they can to ensure things are fair for others. In the process, they can forget about their own needs an become people-pleasers. You can make their lives a little bit easier by really paying attention to how they go out of their way for people, calling out not just their kindness, but when they're taking it too far and need to prioritize themselves. You can flatter them by letting them know their hard work is seen, and that they also deserve to be taken care of from time to time.

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Scorpio (Oct. 23 – Nov. 21): Recognize Their Loyalty

Scorpios is another emotional water sign with a reputation for keeping most people at a distance. They have a few friends, whose closeness has been earned through trust, and few things can break the powerful bond they share. If you've found yourself in Scorpio's inner circle, you shouldn't take that for granted. What you share is likely deep and somewhat intense, and it merits recognition. Tell them precisely what their loyalty has meant to you and how much you value it, and you'll find yourself strengthening that connection even further.

 

Sagittarius (Nov. 22 – Dec. 21): Count on Them to Bring the Fun

When it comes to adventurous and free-spirited Sagittarius, you don't need to get too deep to flatter them. Sure, they can appreciate philosophical debates and unusual ideas, but what will really put a smile on their face is letting them know what you can always depend on them when you want to have fun. They're playful and restless, and few things will make them happier than realizing they're bringing that sense of whimsy to others.

 

Capricorn (Dec. 22 – Jan. 19): Acknowledge Their Dedication

If there's one sign with a reputation for working harder than all of the rest, it's Capricorn. It's in their natures to be dedicated, and once they've figured out a concrete goal, they'll drop just about everything else to make it a reality. Some simple words acknowledging the hours they've put in and the measurable progress they've made along the way will do wonders. After all, they're a very traditional sign who'll enjoy a bit of straight-up flattery.

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Aquarius (Jan. 20 – Feb. 18): Listen to Their Somewhat Zany Ideas

In many cases, actions can speak louder than words, and that's certainly true when you're dealing with an Aquarius. They're known for being independent and idiosyncratic, playing by their own rules and making choices for themselves. Often, they think outside the box, making their ideas a little bit hard to understand. The first step to flattering them is simply to listen with an open mind. Just trying to understand, even if you have to ask clarifying questions to get there, is the biggest compliment you can pay. After all, their thoughts are worthy of an audience.

 

Pisces (Feb. 19 – March 20): Praise and Encourage Their Creativity

And finally, there's dreamy, imaginative Pisces. This water sign can tend to live in their heads more often than in reality, and while they tend to be thinkers rather than doers, when they do act on their vision, they can be as creative and artistic as they come. Sometimes, fear of criticism or not being good enough can prevent them from acting, so when you see that creative spark in Pisces, be sure to encourage it. Flatter them by letting them know what you love about their ideas or works in progress, and inspire them to keep creating even more to really win their heart.

 

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