Crushing Hard on a Libra? Discover the Sign’s Biggest Turnoffs Here
While Libras have a reputation for being charismatic, kind and balanced, some people also find them indecisive and conflict-avoidant. As much as they love most people and are patient with their shortcomings, they also have a few major dating pet peeves and turnoffs that just might spell doom for a relationship.
If you have your eyes set on a special Libra, we recommend learning about these sooner, rather than later, and adjust accordingly. If you're going to have a successful partnership, keep an eye out for the following.
Competitiveness
Above pretty much everything else, Libra tends to be a peace-loving sign. Anyone who always seems to be creating conflict, whether through confrontation of competitiveness, is likely to get on their nerves fast. They just want everyone to get along and are turned off by aggressive natures and people who always need things to go their own way—and they certainly won't be fast to date anyone with this kind of personality.
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Uncertainty
This may seem hypocritical, because Libra is a notoriously indecisive zodiac sign, but they really dislike when other people are as uncertain as they are. Perhaps it's because in this type of relationship, no one's ever going to be able make any choices and get anything done. Libras need someone to balance out their doubt with certainty and poise, and to bring out their own ability to finally make these kinds of important decisions for themself.
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Negativity
Most Libras tend to be balls of sunshine that also love bringing joy and happiness in the lives of others, and they just don't get people who have to be negative about everything all the time. Not only does this sourness bring down their energy, but it makes them feel like they're not succeeding in spreading their optimism when someone's gloom prevails. While everyone feels down from time to time (and we don't suggest leaning into toxic positivity), being able to occasionally look at the bright side of things and persist, despite everything, can go a long way with a Libra.
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Messiness
In astrology, Libra is ruled by the planet Venus, which is associated with beauty and aesthetics. Libras, too, highly value appearances and balanced looks, and they're turned off by those who don't care about how they look or put time and effort into being put-together. It's not that they're only drawn to supermodel types, but instead that they appreciate it when people take care of themselves, as it shows a type of focus and commitment, as well as the ability to potentially extend that support to others.
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Dishonesty
Libras tend to be quite honest, as well as open and expressive, in their relationships, and they need the same in return. Trust is very important to the sign, so you should be doing everything you can not to break it. If they catch you lying, they'll be left wondering what else you might be dishonest about, even if it was over something small and seemingly unimportant. All it takes is one instance to wreck that trust, so don't take this lightly.
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