8 Big Tips for Successfully Dating a Virgo

Dutiful, hard-working and perfectionistic Virgos may not be everyone's cup of tea, but we find that once people fall for one, they fall hard. Their dedication is unparalleled, and their single-minded focus makes them the best in their fields, to the point that it's hard not to take notice.

Virgo birthdays fall from Aug. 23 to Sep. 22, represented by a maiden and a sense of modesty and service to the world at large. They're known for their intelligence and ability at school or in the workplace, but what are Virgos like on a more personal level? In a relationship, you'll likely to see brand-new aspects to Virgo's nature. Below, we have some tips on making it work when dating a Virgo.

Be Patient

You've already likely noticed that Virgos don't take relationships lightly. They're not going to give their hearts to just anyone, and even when they do find someone they believe is deserving of their love, they're likely to move slowly. It might take a while to officially get to the dating stage, and as they get to know you, they'll be carefully considering your every move and gauging your compatibility and suitability as a partner. This can be daunting, at first, but if you're the right person, your patience will pay off. When the relationship does get started in earnest, it's likely to be a strong one, built on a sturdy foundation of trust and understanding.

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Take Their Schedules Seriously

Few people are more strict about their packed schedules than Virgo. They're planners who are highly detail-oriented, meaning they're not bit fans of unexpected changes or cancellations (though they can be flexible when it's absolutely necessary). First, this means not expecting Virgo to switch everything up to accommodate you. Second, you should never flake on a Virgo when you've got a date on the books. Being punctual and making good on your promises is the first step to a harmonious relationship.

 

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Put Effort Into Cleanliness

Virgos have a reputation for perfectionism, and that includes preferring things to be need and tidy at all times. This means they're orderly, organized and put-together, and as their partner, you'll be expected to do the same. Expect them to get on your case if you look sloppy, keep a messy home or present sloppy work. They'll want you and your things to look presentable, so they can flaunt you to the world and proudly let everyone know you're together.

 

Don't Take Their Criticism Too Personally

Virgo may be the most critical sign of the zodiac, and this can manifest as criticisms toward their partners. This can be painful, at times, but it's important to remember that they're not doing it to be mean, and that on occasion, constructive criticism can be helpful. Let them know when they've taken it to far and your feelings are hurt, but also pay attention and see if there's a kernel of truth in their words and you can be doing better. After all, they're likely to notice because they're paying close attention to you as their partner, and knowing how to discuss things will help you find your happy middle ground.

 

Remember to Reassure Them From Time to Time

It's also helpful to remember that a majority of Virgo's toughest criticisms will be leveled toward themselves. They're their own biggest critics, which can result in self-doubt and missed opportunities, even when you know there's no one more qualified or who cares more. A little reassurance can go a long way, especially if you can back up your soothing words with facts and logic. Don't just remind them how great they are—give them proof—and let them know just how much all of their hard work is going to pay off in the long run.

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Communicate Openly and Honestly

Virgo's ruling planet is Mercury, which is said to govern communication. While strong communication is key in any relationship, we find that to be especially true when a Virgo is involved. They don't play games and don't want to be left guessing, so do what you can to be open with them and express yourself precisely, so that you can always be on the same page. If you struggle to share your emotions, it might benefit to work on organizing your thoughts to prevent misunderstandings and unnecessary conflict. Also keep in mind that Virgo pays attention and picks up on little details, so if you're going to be dishonest, they'll pick up on it from a mile away. Don't mess things up and break their trust over things that don't matter in the first place.

 

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Keep Learning and Growing

Don't think that just because you're in a relationship with Virgo that you can rest on your laurels and stop trying to impress them. They're picky and always seeking perfection, and if you refuse to keep learning and growing right alongside them, they're going to quickly outgrow you. The good thing is that in the right relationship, you're going to feel motivated to become your best self around them. This can create a healthy cycle where both of you are constantly working on yourselves and striving to be the very best.

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Try to Keep Up

We bet that Virgo's intelligence and cleverness is one of the things that draws you most to them, but their smarts can be a little daunting at times. You might not always be as witty or know as much as them, but the better you try to keep up, the better off you'll be. They need a partner they can have thoughtful conversations and bounce ideas back and forth with, but it's okay it if takes you some time to get there. When you feel a topic is a bit out of your league, try asking the right questions to get things broken down for you. Luckily, Virgo can be pretty patient and loves explaining things, so you'll be in good hands.

 

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